April 18

My social media is making me feel lonely

Facebook is restricting what you see in your feed so much (and not all of it is bad because getting a ton of likes on something then selling the page to advertises is a new trend) that I pretty much get no comments on anything that I post anymore. My partner doesn’t even see everything I post.

This is terribly irritating, but also this is exactly why I laugh at anyone who says Facebook/Twitter plugging is the best way to sell your book. It is if people are talking about and recommending your book. Or if you’re dropping money to sponsor posts. If you aren’t it’s like standing in a classroom talking to yourself in the hopes that people passing through the hall will hear you.

And speaking of writing, I’m working on a lot right now.

I’ve found a file I thought I’d lost of Wolf Heart free promo stuff (a short story, playlist and little essay I wrote about it) and have been editing and formatting it for free release. Yeah, I know, almost a year after it first came out.

I’m also editing my next big attempt at snagging an agent. You know, because I’ve also decided it’s worth it to keep trying to do so.

I’m trying to rejoin the land of the living writers, namely by running some of my chapters of said novel by the critters over at Book Country. Some people are suspicious of the site. Fine, but I like the people I’ve found there and have found little pissy-writer-ego-drama over there.

I stopped reading writer blogs and going to writer boards because I felt I was just getting involved in the same arguments and the same opinion discussions over and over. I felt like I was spinning my wheels. But maybe it also kept me motivated to keep working. Maybe.

I’m working on a few shorts as well right now with the working titles of “Deep Winter”, “The Mermaid Tank” and “The Peculiarities of Normal”. I’m excited about all three, so yay for that!

So sometimes I fell like I’m doing that talking to an empty room thing, and I get back to work only to discover I have a small audience sitting and waiting for me to say something. I just hope it’s worth their wait.

April 9

Review: Blade Song by J.C. Daniels

Kit Colbana is a P.I. with a secret and a new case–tracking down a young shifter, in the middle of his first transformations who just happens to be the nephew of the very, very unstable Cat Queen. In many ways this is a by-the-box urban fantasy, complete with fun fight scenes, people in danger and tasty love interests. A completely satisfying read on all fronts.

Add in the differences and I put the book, er ereader down and preordered the second in the series immediately. Kit isn’t human, but she’s not all super special and magical. She’s a bastard child of an Amazon which gives her just enough power to get attention from other supernatural folks, but not enough to hold her own should the crap hit the fan. Plus being part human means her own clan left her with a serious, and sometimes debilitating case of PTSD.

While Kit is a good guy, she’s off-kilter and possibly a little mad herself. Think Rambo, who hears weapons sing and has a hot, wicked-strong werecat as her (temporary) personal body guard.

Blade Song is just the beginning of what I hope will be a very interesting journey. More please!

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March 28

Math Night

Tonight was Math Night at Mini’s school.

One thing that happened that made in incredibly proud was during a game/math craft making multiplication flash cards a kid next to us said “I just wrote some easy ones.” Mini replied, “What’s the fun in that?” Color me tickled.

Unfortunately this kid who couldn’t be more than 10 was wearing a T-shirt that said “Please tell your Breasts to stop staring at my eyes” and of course the word breasts was in a fancy bold, eye catching script. Who the hell buys a shirt like that for an elementary school kid??

It gets worse. At home I told Mini I was proud of her for what she said. She told me the boy was none other than her first crush and first ever “boyfriend”.

Again, I have to ask, who the hell gets their 10 year old (now I know his age) that kind of T-shirt?!

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March 21

I gots my ranty pants on

So a well meaning but overzealous person on my Facebook friend list keeps sending out all these pictures about natural food and how horrible things are for you and whatnot. I wonder often if they have done any research at all or are just passing on everything that sounds all scary. It’s really really easy to find nasty articles about just about everything. Anyone can put up a website. But it still amazes me how some people will put up these “sources” that are blatantly trying to sell something or spread yet another agenda. I know there’s a dearth of  neutral news out there these days, but you can find some.

So here’s the graphic:

Let’s begin.

1. MSG

I’ve heard this one too. I know a few people who react badly to chinese food. I believe them, because who am I to tell them how their body feels? The studies say that MSG has been used for a hundred or so years and only recently have people started to claim to see reactions (which could also be from other factors in most cases.) Double blind studies (where neither the guinea pigs nor the scientists know which is MSG and which is placebo) have shown that MSG is no more likely to cause discomfort symptoms than just eating too much, and people with self-diagnosed sensitivities reacted the same to MSG and the placebo. Symptoms include everything you get from a blood pressure spike when you eat too much salty food. Because MSG is a salt. Actually it contains 40% less salts than table salt. Not telling you to go eat some MSG (yum, yum) just maybe we don’t need to tell everyone that it’ll kill you.

2. Aspartame

This one gets me. I mean that literally, since I get violently ill when I drink/eat anything with aspartame in it. I get a horrible headache, the worst I ever get. I have had the same reaction to drinks that don’t list aspartame in their ingredients, like flavored water drinks. But I use Splenda and stevia in my tea and for baking and do not get the same reaction. I’ve never gotten all scientific on myself to make sure that’s really it. Largely because aspartame tastes like shit to me anyway, so why bother. I’m not much of a soda drinker period because the carbonation upsets my stomach in a different way, and I’m not a fan of bottled/canned teas because they tend to be too sweet and not tea enough for me (so not a Nestea fan). Even I admit it could be something else (or a combination of things) in those drinks that make me sick.

And I complain often about the time a doctor told me to switch to diet drinks and when I told her how I get sick after drinking them she said that was not likely and I’d just have to get used to it.  That was a crappy doctor. That doesn’t mean that aspartame does the same thing to everyone. There’s lots of evidence that it doesn’t. I know plenty of people who drink diet drinks and don’t get sick. Their body processes it. Mine doesn’t. We make our own decisions.

3. High Fructose Corn Syrup

It is a sugar, and it is dumped in large quantities in things we drink and eat too much of. It’s hard to eat enough apples to get the same sugar quantity as you get in a handful of Oreos because apples have a high fiber and water content. They fill you up faster. We aren’t supposed to be making a meal out of Oreos though. They’re a small-quantity treat. The studies show no higher percentage to health issues, including obesity, from HFCS than from other kinds of sugars.

4. Agave Nectar

Is a liquid sugar. See above.

5. Artificial Food Coloring

There were definitely some previous dyes that were dangerous. Many now are being studied. Sometimes we find out really surprising stuff, like how blue dyes can help repair spinal cord injuries. I think the fix here is us, as a society, to stop expecting everything to look like advertisements. Food, like science can be icky looking. Still no evidence it’s currently killing people.

6. BPA and BHT

Are antioxidants, you know those things that are supposed to make you look younger, feel better and prevent cancer. Funny how some of the same people swearing to their evils are also trying to push the same thing under different names.

(Also there is evidence that BHT helps prevent carcinogens from doing damage to you. Even though California lists BPA/BHT as a carcinogen.)

7. Sodium Nitrite and Sodium Nitrate

Sodium Nitrite inhibits microorganism growth, primarily Botulism. Yup, that’s definitely a deadly additive I want removed from my food! Down with NaNO2! Give me more Botulism! Actually, Nitrates can affect the health in large doses. Botulism (and other bacteria found in improperly canned foods or improperly cured meats) can kill you. Considering how even fifty years ago more people home cured and canned and more people had botulism I can see why this began to be added to foods. I’m sure some of us are alive today because it.

8. Potassium Bromate

Is a Carcinogen. However is largely not used voluntarily. Even though it bakes off completely in goods when used appropriately.

9. Recombinant Bovine Growth Hormone

Many, many organizations have found that rBGH (which just means it was made in a lab, not taken from cows, and are chemically similar in the way sugar and sucralose are) does not translate to milk. But, even Monsano reported that it harms cows. Many many stores, including Walmart and Kroger have no-rBGH policies, so it’s easy to avoid anyway.

10. Refined Vegetable Oil

Is used to make “green” fuels, not used as a food additive.

So here’s my proposed list of the 10 Worst Food Ingrients

1. Human Body Parts

2. Rodents

3. Insects

4. Excrement

5. e. Coli

6. Parasites

7. Salmonella

8. Animals not raised specifically for human consumption

9. Drugs (specifically the “date rape” kind)

10. Fetuses*

*Considering a handful of the ingredients listed in the graphic aren’t used in food I thought the picture was about as reliable as Ralph Shortey’s claims that companies are using aborted fetuses in our food.

 

 

 

 

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